Get up after you fall and continue walking. There is nothing you need to cry on for your knees. Raise your eyes again and get up. When you continue to grieve for what has happened, your attention is only focused on what was, not what is or could be. You have to get up again and continue. Go further so that you can see for yourself where the road leads you in.
Each path ultimately leads to the peace that you seek in your soul. But many of you sit still, stay where they fall and mourn among those who also mourn. They reinforce each other and think they form a unity with each other. But you deny your own potential, you deny the bottom on which you were born. If your load is too heavy, just leave it behind where it becomes too heavy for you. Let her go and move on, without all the ballast from the past.
Letting go of the past is all you have to do. No longer try to hold on to what you no longer serve. The dust behind you will drop until it is waiting to be raised again by the next seeker. Nothing stays the same, for nobody, why should it be different for you. Therefore, get up again and walk on, go on with your life and do not continue to grieve. Allow yourself to feel sadness, but also see the relief as a moment to move on.
Life is suffering when you choose that. But suffering is just an experience that can help you keep going. Because the soul knows no suffering and is therefore on its way back to the pure state of being. Therefore let your soul guide you, she knows where she wants to go back and how to get there. Your heart serves as a compass, not for the other, but for yourself. Let your heart show you the way to come home again, but be quiet. Silent to let your soul speak so that she knows.
Go beyond everything that sounds sensible, go beyond everything that sounds familiar. Everything that is known has only taken you to where you are now. Everything you know is old and doesn't serve you. The soul goes where it is new, where it is spontaneous and loving. Let your soul lead you to where everything is unknown to you, because you will know that you are going the right way.
(written on January 6 2014)